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    ChappyDec 12, 2012 at 4:13 pm

    Sweet Angelica,
    I am so glad you spoke up about the trashy way people regard our school. I know you love your mom, but loving your mom isn’t the only reason this lack of cleaning up after ones’ self bothers you, because it bothers me and we do not have the same mother. But we do share the same value and respect for property and our effect on it, particularly our campus, Decatur High School.
    Over the years many staff members and even some students have also fought this “clean up after your-own-self war” so we are not alone! Others fight along side us in this battlefield of ick, so do not lose heart.
    The reason a trashy school bothers you and I is, when we see people leaving or creating a mess, we think most people are capable of cleaning up after themselves so why would they want to make more mess for someone else to pick up and clean up? Why do that sort of thing on purpose?
    In addition, we, and possibly others feel it is not best for our school to be trashed and our custodians to be treated disrespectfully.
    When trash and messes are created for the purpose of “entertainment”, something is wrong. When it is too difficult to pick up your own trash and take it to the trash. something is wrong. When food is used as a toy, something is wrong. Color me crazy, but it seems something is wrong.
    For years I have felt only a “slight” bit of your pain, Angelica, thank you for speaking up for your mother and our school.
    Your Aunt and Mother are my dear – DEAR friends, in many ways they seem more like family to me than friends or co- workers so it is hard for me to not take it personally when I see people throw food or leave it for someone “else “ to pick up.
    I know that it is easy to discriminate and hate if you do not know the person, if you can group them, and simply know “about” them. Most people do not know your mom or your aunt; most people only know our school has custodians and people tend to group them as the custodians.
    I think IF whomever left their trash, made messes, and entertained themselves by playing with food knew our custodians, were in fact your mom, your aunt, my friends., it would be must MUCH harder to leave trash on purpose then next time. Maybe the custodians aren’t seen as real people, or maybe valuable? Many students believe that the custodians are “maids”. I see people walk by the custodians and never speak, say things as IF the custodians can not hear, ignore the custodians as if they are part of the landscape, seldom include them because after it’s just the custodians,….. Anyway these are only observations of mine. And do not serve to point toward a solution.
    Angelica, I have come to understand it is easier to disrespect /hate if you never get to know the person and only see them as a group.
    I am so glad I have gotten to know your mom, your aunt and others. I thank them often for the hard work they do here at Decatur School by keeping our school clean. Maybe after reading your thoughts someone else will take time to pickup their trash, or food or maybe? Just maybe???? …, get to know your mom , your aunt, my friends and stop seeing them as more than the custodians.
    Just my opinion Sweet Angelica,
    Chappy

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